Resolutions for the New Year (plus some bonus inspiration!)

In case you haven't noticed from previous blog posts, I am an avid fan of making lists. I'm convinced that it has something to do with my anxiety and keeping me sane. Regardless of that, I have really grown to love writing them, so here's another list of mine that I plan to print out and stick to for the new year of 2012. Some of these resolutions are also bucket list items, but I try to challenge myself every year to do anything (and everything) on my bucket list. Might as well, right? :)

1. Attend Red Hot Chili Peppers concert (already planned)
2. Attend other awesome concerts
3. Stop walking on tiptoes
4. See a chiropractor about back problems
5. Meet new people (always an easy one to cross off!)
6. Get more sleep (we'll see about this one... haha)
7. Start Etsy shop for my crocheted projects
8. Get a new piercing (most likely another ear piercing)
9. Turn 21 :D
10. Go to a karaoke bar
11. Get a coffee table for my living room
12. Meet someone famous (it could happen!)
13. Go on a spontaneous road trip
14. Get scholarship monies
15. Learn how to play an instrument/relearn how to play violin
16. Make more playlists
17. Eat healthier and drink more water
18. Go to the gym often
19. Rock climb more often (this is a must!)
20. Become satisfied with my wardrobe
21. Watch Community and become addicted
22. Watch Star Trek and become addicted
23. Grow a pair and actually do the polar plunge
24. Have an adventurous spring break
25. Try something new/become more cultured
26. Become more prepared for the zombie apocalypse (you never know)
27. Read more books! (You'll most likely be seeing a book list posted on here very soon)
28. Be more carefree and less anxious
29. Take a women's defense class
30. Buy a typewriter (I actually might buy one before the year starts!)

There's definitely more I could add, but these are the ones that came to mind. There's a lot on this list, some of which are out of my control (such as number 12), but let's see how much of it I can actually accomplish!

While every year has its ups and downs, I think it's those very ups and downs that make us who we are. They form us into stronger people and help us on the way to finding our true selves. Bad things may happen to us and sometimes all we can see are the bad things that cloud our happiness, but we must realize that the bad things are simply bumps in the road. They're hard to get over, but once you've surpassed them, you're one step closer to where you want to be, metaphorically speaking. We must cherish the great things that happen to us and look forward to both the expected and unexpected moments in life, whether they are good or bad. I see this new year as a fresh start for myself and I have a feeling that it has a lot of great things in store for me. And with that, here is a quote for you all to think about as you ring in the new year. Cheers, fellow blog readers! :)

"Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties."
- Helen Keller

Overcoming sadness

Since I've been quite lonely and a bit sad lately, I thought it appropriate to share some of my wisdom, or wisdom of others, rather.
I've discovered that picking myself back up from a collision of unfortunate life events can be a difficult and a rather frustrating process. It's hard to sort all of my feelings and make sense of what is going on in my life, and it's even harder to come to terms with the fact that the sorting takes time.

I've also found it challenging to describe how I really feel to others, not to mention to myself. I've been looking up so many quotes to help me with my sadness as well as my anxiety as a result of my depression, and it's surprisingly comforting to read what other people say about heartache and feeling lost or unsure. Reading quotes makes me feel a lot less lonely and also less stressed out; it gives me comfort to know that others have gone through similar hard times and they've made it through.
A lot of the quotes I am sharing are sad, but they are also beautifully said. I feel as though the best way to overcome sadness sometimes requires the truthful, albeit heavyhearted words to help with healing the parts of the heart that are still hurting.

Sometimes two people need to step apart
and make a space between
that each might see the other anew,
in a glance across a room
or silhouetted against the moon.
-Robert Brault

People change and forget to tell each other.  
-Lillian Hellman

Some people come into our lives and quickly go.  Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.  
-Flavia Weedn

Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.  
-Author Unknown

“I'm not lost for I know where I am. But however, where I am may be lost.”

“Rivers know this: there is no hurry. We shall get there some day.” 

“If there ever comes a day when we can't be together, keep me in your heart. I'll stay there forever.”
“I don’t feel very much like Pooh today," said Pooh.  "There there," said Piglet. "I’ll bring you tea and honey until you do.” 
-A.A. Milne
(All A.A. Milne quotes are amazing and make me smile.)

I know that life has it's rough patches and that I'll feel like myself again eventually. I can at least say that I'm lucky to be with family that I love and care about around the most wonderful time of the year: Christmas time!
I hope everyone gets to be with the ones they love, and if you're not yet, get there soon! In the meantime, let them know how much you love them, because one can never tell when someone may need to hear it. :)